Y’all be changing y’all whole personality to fit a nigga preferences and lifestyle... from how you dress, how you talk, what you post, who you hang around, what you like, and how you move just because you think that’s gonna make him love you more. If you gotta become a completely different bitch to keep a nigga, he don’t want YOU. Never lose yourself trying to fit into a nigga idea of the perfect woman. The right person is gonna appreciate you AS YOU ARE, not the version of yourself you created just to keep their attention. Be yourself, stand on who you are, and let whoever can’t handle that get the fuck on. You should never have to shrink, switch up, or abandon yourself just to be loved.