As a man, Sometimes you have to be honest with yourself and say, "I'm not LOVED here. I'm not APPRECIATED. l'm not VALUED. I'm not SEEN."
THEN WALK AWAY, & STAY AWAY. 💯
You can lose a solid five year female friendship because you didn’t send her 500 cedis to help her pay for some bridesmaid expenses and it almost embarrassed her
Please take time and read.
Half of you shout horrible idea and not offer a single sound reason as to why that is yet expect other countries to open up to you…
When someone starts over-explaining simple things, the truth is already missing.
I didn’t confront her.
Didn’t expose anything.
Didn’t even argue.
I just slowly became unavailable.
Less calls.
Short replies.
No more emotional investment.
“miss you too ❤️”
Cousin ke? 😭
That moment yeah…
Something just switched off inside me.
No anger.
No shouting.
No jealousy.
Just clarity.
She kept talking, explaining things I didn’t even ask.
That’s when it hit me…