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Turns out that back at the lighthouse, and even on their other dates, BK had quietly prepared 10 backup questions because he was worried Tata would get nervous 🥹 so when Tata wrote on her post before that BK would keep rambling about random things because he knew she was afraid of heights. He did it on purpose to distract her and make her feel less nervous and it worked. That's why, on confession night, Tata said she didn't feel nervous at all. BK had already created a space where she felt relaxed, safe, and completely at ease.
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Q: After getting together, have there ever been moments when either of you lost control of your emotions?
Tata: Honestly, not really. If we do have emotions to work through, we'll usually have a lot of late night talks. Like what everyone saw on the show when we were beside the swimming pool, that was one of our late night conversations and privately, we're also the type of people who will talk for a really, really long time. Whether there's something we're happy about or unhappy about, we'll talk about it just like we did then. Sometimes I'm the “teacher,” and sometimes he’s the “teacher”
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Xiaxia: First, many people describe BK as having the energy of a puppy-like younger boyfriend, while Tata has the charm of an older girlfriend.
So BK, in your daily life, when do you feel Tata shows more of her “older sister” side?
BK: Sometimes, when I’m under a lot of pressure from work or feeling mentally overwhelmed, she’ll stand firmly by my side and tell me, “I just want you to be happy. You should be yourself. I’ll always be behind you” She gives me a great deal of emotional support. She makes me feel extremely secure.
Xiaxia: Then when does she seem more like a younger sister?
BK: When she’s hungry. I’ll cook for her and she’ll just sit there waiting for the food.
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XiaXia: What about you, Tata? When does BK feel more like an “older brother” to you?
Tata: Honestly, he always feels like both an older brother and a dad to me. He's really good at taking care of people. For example, he'll remind me to sit up straight and not slouch. He shows his concern through little things like that. He'll also remind me to wear slippers at home so my feet don't get cold little things like that.
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A comment asked if they’ve ever had an argument before, and Tata said they basically never argue. Then BK was like, let’s pretend to have a fight 😂
Tata: Pretend to have a fight? Okay, 3,2,1 action!
BK: Who’s that man? Tata: Lu Bingkuan. Do you know him? BK: I’m your husband. You’ve never heard of me?
Tata: We really are the kind of people who just can’t seem to have a proper fight. There really aren’t many fights between us. I think communication is really important, although arguing is also a form of communication.
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Over 3 months together and this man is still looking at her like he just discovered she exists.. Sir, haven’t you seen your girlfriend enough??? 😂
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BK being jealous of a memory he was literally part of 😭 Bro is his own competition
Tata: I’ve ridden a bicycle in Beijing before
BK: In Beijing, you did what?
Tata: Ridden a bicycle
BK: When did you ever ride a bicycle?
Tata: When did I ride one? Go back and rewatch the show
BK: No, I mean outside the show
Tata: So what were you doing when I was riding a bicycle?
BK: I was watching you ride a bicycle
Tata: You were by yourself, weren’t you?
BK: Then who were you with?
Tata: I don’t know
BK: With your husband?
Remember when Tata said in one of their interviews that BK goes crazy scrolling on his phone whenever he’s unhappy. Yeah, she was absolutely right 😂
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