Someone is going to love you gently, completely, and without making you earn it. They’ll love you with patience, excitement, tenderness, honesty, and courage. The kind of love that feels safe enough to be fully yourself in.
It's truly beautiful seeing how everything happens for a reason. This past weekend was so beautiful. Seeing everyone come together and new friendships formed all because people were there to support me and my husband.🥹
Just remember that this human experience is temporary. You arrive with nothing, you spend your whole life chasing everything, but still leave with nothing. So make sure that your soul gains more than your hands.
So I have been thinking about folks between 28-35.
It has become obvious to me that this phase of life is one of the most misunderstood and emotionally demanding seasons anyone will ever pass through.
At this age, life quietly removes the training wheels. You are no longer seen as young and figuring it out, yet you don’t fully feel established. Expectations rise from every direction. Family expects stability. Society expects progress. Your peers seem to be doing better online. And you expect answers from yourself that are not yet clear.
This is the age where comparison becomes dangerous. You start measuring your life against timelines that were never designed for you. Someone is married. Someone bought a house. Someone relocated. Someone is already tired of a career you are just entering. And without warning, pressure creeps in, not because you are failing, but because you are becoming more aware.
Between 28-35, many people are not lazy or unserious. They are simply overwhelmed. This is the stage where reality replaces motivation. Where dreams meet bills. Where talent meets structure. Where passion demands discipline. You are forced to confront gaps in your skills, mindset, finances, and emotional health.
It is also the age where isolation becomes common. Friends drift. Circles shrink. Conversations become transactional. You are surrounded by people, yet feel alone. And when there is no strong sense of purpose or progress, escape starts to look attractive, whether through distractions, unhealthy habits, or quiet resignation.
But this phase is not a curse. It is a construction site.
It is the age where you must stop relying on potential and start building systems. Where you must upgrade skills, not for applause, but for survival and relevance. Where you learn that no one is coming to save you, yet you are more capable than you ever realized.
If you are between 28-35 and feel lost, tired, or behind, it does not mean something is wrong with you. It means you are awake. Growth at this stage is rarely loud. It is often lonely, uncomfortable, and slow. But it is also foundational.
This season rewards those who stay honest with themselves, invest in learning, choose better environments, and keep moving even when clarity is incomplete.
Wow, 14 years. This band is nearly the same age each of us were when we decided to hang together and try to make some music in the first place. It's only been possible for this long because of how much you have supported us, this music, and the beautiful little world that we've all built together. Can't wait til we're all still doing this 14 more years down the road.. 💙