It is not good to make fun of the ‘children’ that were rejected by the DNA test (Paulo Kafeero). How is it my fault for my mother to give me a wrong father, and to grow up knowing that! We shouldn’t add more trauma to what they must be going through internally. It’s not funny.
I think we’re a traumatised people desperately looking for what to laugh about to offload (displace) our own trauma!
Been shooting weddings for over 10 years.
And I keep watching the same avoidable mistakes show up on the most expensive, most planned days of people’s lives.
Nobody talks about this honestly. So let me.
turns out, reading voraciously, moving your body, loving people without keeping score, protecting your solitude, chasing nothing but your own growth, and occasionally staying out too late with people who make you laugh until it hurts is not a bad way to build a life.
Some ppl can hold a conversation for hours without gossiping about anyone. They talk about their dreams, struggles, habits, memories, ideas, & the life they’re trying to build never needing to tear someone else down to keep the conversation going. this kind of connection is real.