A healthy relationship will test you more than a toxic one, because it won’t let you run. It holds up a mirror and says: show up, communicate, grow. That’s why real love scares people more than chaos ever could.
y’all want “friends” until they tell you that you do too much, drink too much, need to mature, or need to work on yourself. y’all don’t want friends ; y’all want people to encourage your bullshits
They weren't lying when they said you wake up one day and just don't care anymore. No warning, no dramatic shift, just a quiet, almost peaceful detachment.
men don't understand... being a “provider” isn't just about money. it's about providing the EMOTIONAL SECURITY that allows a woman to rest in her FEMININE ENERGY. the money is the icing, not the cake.
acts of service really will make me melt. idc what it is, big or small. The fact that i’m considered and thought about and you wanna make my day easier just really gets me going🥹