@guzu_p No. A man does not have to experience heartbreak before marriage.
Many people marry their first serious partner and have happy, lasting marriages. Others go through several relationships before finding the right person. Neither path is automatically better.
Share food after service and see how people will be happy to be in church; Everthing is not "Prayer, Scatter, Fire". Jesus knew the importantace of feeding his followers. Today a lot of people in the church are hungry, and are even thinking of what to eat after service. The church can from time to time provide free food, especially if service lasts too long. Food is also a lot of people's love language, so why not.