A lot of people don’t understand how relationships work.
They did not set out to fuck on the job.
This is what eventually happens but unfortunately it’s what marriages are missing. You see, at work, you do stuff together - you talk, to build projects, fail, tray again, travel together, have lunch at office cafeteria. This mimics a relationship already. Slowly, you begin to see the person beyond your colleague. You begin to see their soft and hard sides; their vulnerability. You begin to know them deeply, in fact, far more than your spouse at home (8-12 hours at work is no joke).
Eventually, guards drop. Likeness begins and you fuck!
A lot of marriages are struggling because couples don’t do stuff together as much as they do with their colleagues at work. Great bonds are formed when you do something with someone. See soldiers, Boy Scouts members etc. That’s how it works.
Anyone who thinks people won’t fuck themselves at work in 2026 is being delusional. You don’t have to like it. Policies can minimise it, but it can never eradicate it.
Ibrahim Turaki became governor at 35
Donald Duke at 37
Chimaroke Nnamani at 38
OUK at 39
These guys got these opportunities when they were young, and their generation decided to close the doors at young people ever becoming anything more than SSAs.
Nigerians often don’t care how much of an inconvenience their actions are to others, as long as they benefit from them.
Basic human decency should tell you to keep your church or event centre’s speakers at a reasonable volume, especially when you operate in a residential area. But apparently, once you’re making money or your members are being spiritually fed, everyone else’s comfort becomes irrelevant.
And this is one of our biggest problems: a lack of consideration for others.
Be decent by default. Be considerate. The fact that something doesn’t inconvenience you doesn’t mean it isn’t a problem for someone else.
There’s nothing like “pro-choice” these elections by the way, be like say una dey mad. There is only ONE right choice and that is PETER OBI. If you are on any other side you are an IDIOT and you deserve to be bullied. miss me with that everyone can choose their candidate talk. Gtfo.