I can be the most understanding person, but I am not blind. Your repeated toxic behaviour will slowly drain my energy. Once I reach my limit, don't expect the same patience and understanding I once gave so freely. When I'm done. I'm done for real
I hate when someone is quick to apologize before understanding what they did wrong,
before I even finish saying what they did wrong,
You’re sorry? Ok for what?
My daughter’s best friend had a parent die. Suddenly. Like my father. One moment alive. Next moment not. She came to school the day after. I don’t know why. Maybe because staying home was worse. My daughter found her in the bathroom. Just sitting. My daughter sat down next to her. Didn’t say I’m sorry. Didn’t say anything actually. Just sat on the bathroom floor with her best friend. They sat there for thirty minutes. Teacher found them. Took them to the counselor’s office.
I’ve known my wife for 14 years and I don’t think I’ve ever had to forgive her for anything. You don’t have to settle for partners who hurt you over and over