there is something intoxicating about a person who is deeply occupied with something they are passionate about. the most attractive people are usually the hardest to reach. not because they are playing games. not because they think they’re better than everyone else. but because their mind is already occupied by something bigger than attention. they are building something. mastering something. obsessed with something. and that obsession gives them a kind of energy you cannot fake. people can feel when someone’s entire life revolves around being noticed. it makes them predictable, too available, too easy to read. but the people who stay in your mind for years are different. they have depth. mystery. a private world you cannot fully access. they disappear into their craft instead of disappearing into validation. they don’t wait around for texts all day because they are too busy becoming someone they are proud of. and the craziest part? the less they need attention, the more magnetic they become. because “nothing is more alluring than someone who has somewhere else to be, even if that place is internal.”
Me enjoying my two-week free trial with a baddie before she realizes the only thing I have to offer her at the moment is attention, vibes, and the confidence of someone still figuring life out 😭
I’d rather live in solitude than surrender my dignity to another man for drinks, rides or a meal. uyolokhu uthi grootman, chief, leadership ngisho ungasathandi ugcine usu 🐻🐻ka futhi.. uma ungenamali hlala kini, period!
Eating alone is one of, if not the most, important skills a man can develop.
If you can’t enjoy your own company, you’ll spend your life chasing the wrong people’s attention.
Master solitude.
It’s where confidence is built.
"I am so grateful that I am a magnet for miracles"
Notice how this isn't even a manifestation. He's not saying "I will be a magnitude for miracles". It's gratitude for a reality he believes already exists. He isn't trying to convince himself that he will be something in the future, he's adopted the identity.
It's the difference between speaking from want vs. speaking from absolute certainty.
What you desire already exists, you just haven't stepped into the story.