A moving woman will eventually understand feminism.
It is sacrosanct to your self actualisation that you see yourself worthy of the highest form of respect as a human being and not anything less because you’re a woman.
Again, a moving woman WILL learn feminism.
Marry a kind man o…
I was involved in a gas explosion that had both legs burned. Both my legs were bandaged and for days I couldn’t walk.
My husband doesn’t know how to cook but before I said I was hungry, he would have ordered food.
One day he came home with two different pure aloe Vera extract gels and two pots of the aloe Vera plant. He said he heard that aloe Vera helps to heal burns..
The next day someone delivered a big bottle of honey .. my husband said. Another person told him honeys was good for burns but most honey they sold were fake so he ordered some from a vendor in the village that harvests the honey by herself… I asked how much he bought it.. he said it was expensive but I shouldnt worry, my healing was his priority .
On one of those days I couldn’t walk, I woke up in the midnight and needed to pee, my husband had worked till very late at night so he slept off in his work space. I called for him to come carry me but he couldn’t hear me, so I dragged myself to the bathroom in pain when I got back to the bed I had peed a little on myself and cleaning up without being able to walk or stand felt impossible… I immediately started to cry… my crying woke my husband up and he rushed into the room asking if I was okay… he kept apologizing for sleeping off in his work space while cleaning me up and cleaning my tears…
When a man is unkind he knows he is unkind. A kind man will never hold back or give excuses.
Anuoluwatimileyin Oko mi. God bless the day you gave me your party rice 😍😍
Last month, my 2y8month old niece did a procedure at UBTH(Universityof Benin Teaching Hospital). She was discharged on Monday with an estimated bill of 1.4M.
On Thursday, my cousin noticed she wasn't breathing normally. They returned to UBTH the same day, and she was placed on observation until Friday morning.
Then, it was suggested that a scan should be done to pinpoint the exact location of whatever was causing obstruction for immediate removal.
According to the house officer, she needed to be sedated before the scan, so instead of applying one shot, he administered 3 shots, claiming the child was too agitated for one shot.
My niece went into a deep sleep, and that was the last time I saw her alive.
It took a lot of intervention for the entire state not to be thrown into chaos, her lifeless body resting on my thigh as we moved her body, with her finely braided hair to the cemetery for rest.
NO! I AM NOT SATISFIED!
She kept it for 8 straight days, followed the instructions on how to preserve since they were fresh flowers, kept pruning and recording each day 🥲🥲🥲.
Now that they are dead she wants to frame them 😃😃😃.
I don’t understand the logic but she was so happy, and that was enough.
i know that sometimes it comes down to costs but it's important that we don't allow chinese manufacturers kill local fabrics. we should stop buying printed asoke, akwaete adire and akwaocha. if we stop buying the real thing, these fabrics will go extinct.
I tied Eden’s legs today because the boy moves too much. I don talk tire. You won’t believe this is the same boy I was constantly praying to God about because all his mates had started walking and he didn’t start till he was a year and 3 months.
“He don waka?”
That question from relatives and friends haunted my husband and I for weeks. It was a challenging period.
It’s the same boy I’m tying his legs today because he too dey waka. 🤦🏾♀️
Bought houses both Home and abroad, and yes cash down abroad as well
Built a house for my parents
Bought Cars for my parents
Sent 2 of my Siblings to Private University from start till graduation
Series of cars for myself , all cash down
Sponsored my Hajj and umrahs repeatedly myself
Sponsored my Mums Hajj single handedly
Survived brutal divorce and bounce back significantly without a significant dent on my finances and not collecting a dime from the Man as alimony or Children support for years.
Sponsoring 2 international Holidays for my kids and I yearly
Supporting my 3 children through school
Went back to study for my Masters.
Building a business in Healthcare and by God's grace so many more
All with assistance of God, Hardwork, resilience and emotional support from few dependable friends
And yes not from any Man but Funds from my Career and serial side hustle whilst maintaining my dignity and integrity. A grateful being and a testament to God's unending goodness plus self belief, hardwork and self assurance.
The designs I’ve been creating since January have been hitting every single time. Whenever I share the ideas with my tailors, the first reaction is usually, “Are you sure about this?” 😅 But somehow, it always comes together beautifully in the end.
She gave birth to her twins at 36weeks old 🥺
One of the babies went home with her while the other spent days in the NICU 😢
So much strength in one story 😭
Sending love to every NICU parent out there 🤍