@hi_ayanda This be why so many men want their women to be jobless housewives.
If they cant just upp and leave on the drop of a hat it will be used to keep her trapped & The tradwife trend is glorifying feminine helplessness and funneling more of the naive women into abusive situations
If he can't help himself from lusting over girls online while you're in your prime then imagine how things will be when you're pregnant, postpartum, aging.
If you're ever lost/stranded change your voicemail immediately to say where you are, who you were with, what time you arrived etc. When people notice you're missing and start calling you, the voicemail may just save your life especially if your phone goes dead or you have no service.
Keep your problems smaller than your life. A flat tire is a flat tire. A bad meeting is a bad meeting. A canceled flight is just an extra two hours. These things become catastrophes when you let them. But they stay manageable when you remember the depth of your real life- the people you love, the work you care about, the beautiful years still ahead. Zoom out. Fit your reaction to the size of the problem.
I say this every time.
I need women to realise you aren’t special in the patriarchy.
The fact that you haven’t been assaulted yet, doesn’t mean other women did something wrong.
You are just LUCKY
Being 10 years old and making your debut in epigenetic trauma research all because you noticed your caterpillars still loved you after becoming butterflies is so profound and poetic and impressive. I love children and their incredible hearts and minds!!!!!!
Maybe i am too woke 🤷🏻♀️ but I'm actually glad birth rates are declining. Not because children are a burden, but because more people are finally realising they're not fit to be parents and that's a far kinder decision than bringing a child into a life they're not prepared for.
your abusive father controlled his temper around coworkers, neighbors, friends, church members, cashiers, & strangers.
then he brought the rage home to people with less power to leave.
that was a choice he kept making.
A man's desire to become a father is always paid for by a woman with her body, her health, her career, and her freedom.
But when a woman expects a comfortable life, she is somehow shamed for wanting too much.
You can go to Amazon Pharmacy, talk to an AI chatbot doctor for 5 minutes, and get a prescription for Tretinoin shipped to your door the next day. What an amazing time to be alive.