I honestly think committed relationships are dead…Enjoy the vibe and don't allow people to play with you…You will only know if it's real over time. Respect is key and love is not forced. It's dangerous in today's world to even consider being committed in a relationship especially if you have something going for yourself..I stand on it.
‘Thinking my singleness is ever a man’s decision is where you fucked up’ is such a real ass statement because do men really think it’s entirely up to them ??
Life keeps moving whether the circumstances feel fair or not. Bills still come. Goals need chasing. Responsibilities still exist. You still have to show up, and show up well, despite how you feel. I’m not saying it’s easy. I’m not saying it’s fair. I’m saying it’s necessary.
Life been weird lately. It feels like a mixture of blessings, lessons, & confusion all at once. Some days I’m grateful. Some days I’m tired. Some days I’m just trying to make sense of everything💯.