Kay James

Navigating my 40’s and all that comes with that.

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

@ArjaKop @kwame_bosco1 @TheFigen_ I would totally watch that 😂😂

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

@naija2capeblog @TheFigen_ That shit used to be the worst😂😂😂😂

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

@KarenSVerghese @shannonrwatts Exactly this

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

I compensated. I limped in a way that felt subtle (it wasn't). I told myself it would pass.
Until I finally got the answer: arthritis. What the fuck? I was not ready. Why was I not warned that this it what my forties would bring? I wasn’t ready

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

#45 and fucked
Grey Hairs, A bum Foot, and the very moment I realized I'm not "Too Young" for Arthritis. I found my first grey hairs along my hairline the way most inconvenient truths show up: quietly, casually, and with the audacity of someone who pays zero bills in my house.

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

For months, it hurt. Not "I wore cute shoes and now I'm being punished" hurt. Not "I walked around Target for two hours like it was cardio" hurt. This was the kind of pain that lingers, nags, and slowly turns you into a person who has opinions about flooring.

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

At first, I tried to be reasonable. Maybe it was the lighting. Maybe it was lint. Maybe my hair was just... reflecting wisdom. But no. It was grey. Real grey. The kind that says, "Hi. I live here now." and then there was my left foot. Smh!!

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

@315Saul @jodyjsperling Then I’m partnering up with you and I’ll be your back up dancer/ hype man 😂😂😂

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

@emmasaurustex If you think you’re lonely now by Jodeci

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

@geostylegeo Not very often, but when I do….my kids don’t allow it gotta keep going

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

@jodyjsperling

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

I like the idea of spiders 😂😂😂😂

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

@BeatTheCult No

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

Folding fitted sheets is the bane of my existence. If you happen upon my linen closet and see them balled up in the top of the closet, mind ya bizness 😂😂😩. Good morning everyone 😁

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

@MadScientistFF I actually like seeing and spending time with my children and having a life

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

@MadScientistFF No

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

@WagerWire Bonds

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

@joncoopertweets I’m coming Elizabeth

[Kay James @KiahJames3]

@Aruthasexy1 Fuck no