If love finds me again, I hope it comes from a person who is willing to treat me right. A person who never makes me question my worth, a person who doesn't make me beg for love and doesn't make me feel stupid in love.
Having an emotionally mature partner is a blessing. To be able to say "Hey, this bothers me" & seeing the change almost instantaneously is really Top Tier. Like you heard me, you seen me, you validated me, you fixed the issue, no argument, no drama just pure accountability >>
When people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There are literally so many pple in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.
healing is so fucking frustrating. it's like you're doing well, you're forgiving, you're letting shit go and you're working on processing through it all, then boom traumatic shit enters your mind and you have to start all the way over processing those feelings
i genuinely do not believe people treat you how they feel about you. i believe they treat you based on the state of mind they're in. some people unintentionally hurt you because they are at war with themselves suffering, and suffering with things that has nothing to do with you.
if a person creates space between us, I just let them be..if they never come to me & explain what the issue is, we’ll probably never talk again because i really just let people be. i’m fine with losing anyone who’s ok with losing me. i fought too hard for a lot of relationships.