Being traumatized from friendships is crazy. Because what do you mean the whole time I was being genuine and loving you like a sister you were hating and plotting on me.
I need the girls to get DISGUSTED by a man never buying flowers, planning dates, building a bond, investing in & pouring love + effort into a good hearted woman that deserves it. GET DISGUSTED.
I used to not understand why people do long distance relationships until I started dating in Toronto. This is not the city to find love in. Let me sit my ass down and FaceTime someone 800km away from me instead.
as a woman it's so important that you learn how to be a Problem. I know what they taught you but fuck what you heard. you will people-please your way into an early grave
there’s a really lonely feeling that comes from always being emotionally available for everyone while secretly feeling like nobody truly knows how to be there for you
One thing I made peace with in 2026 is that I don't have to. I don't have to go above and beyond for others. I don't always have to be the bigger person. I don't have to fix what I didn't break. I don't have to show up for those who don't show up for me. And I definitely don't have to sacrifice my own happiness to please everyone else.