I saw a quote that said.. "You could literally be fighting for your life, and some people will only notice how you're not showing up for them." Let that sink in.
ngl having people that love you is one thing. But having people who still love you when you’re a burden, when things are a mess, when you’re in the wrong…those are your people. to truly be loved is to still be loved when it’s inconvenient to love you.
I just heard someone say “maybe you don’t need more time to heal, maybe you need more experiences that show your nervous system a different realty”
And, yeah.
I like friends that take beach day seriously. In there early af with a cooler full of sandwiches, fruit, chips & water. Don’t be strolling in at 1pm with nothing but liquor 😭