😅 @Tshego_Ngoash this reminded me of our conversation... The 40s are thee best... you do YOU, care less what folks say and embrace both your darkness and light in equal measure.... that stuff is irresistible 😏💅🏾... that's where the youthful glow comes from actually ❤
You have to be ok with stepping on toes, rattling cages, letting the chips fall where they may. This requires a deep belief that whatever is meant to be will be and whoever rejects your own way of protecting or healing yourself is either not important or does not deserve to be.❤
One advantage of getting older is that you learn that your peace is paramount. I've seen enough women die inside because they upheld some unwritten rule about how they should behave in certain situations, instead of honoring their own sense of what's right and what's just.
Some things are not worth suffering for or from. What other people think of you is none of your business. You have to cultivate a level of self-knowledge and confidence to pull it off though. It mostly comes with age but it's also the result of practice.
We weren't quite ready to be servants in her Queendom, but serve we do. She has Royal Demands, of course, but like a true Queen she is kind & considerate, sensitive to others' needs and feelings, and always so giving of herself and her love. Happy Birthday light of our lives💙💎