I honestly think committed relationships are dead…Enjoy the vibe and don't allow people to play with you…You will only know if it's real over time. Respect is key and love is not forced. It's dangerous in today's world to even consider being committed in a relationship especially if you have something going for yourself..I stand on it.
It's so selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their peace because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.