Dating is so funny because I don’t actually need you to text me all day.
I just need to feel like you genuinely want to talk to me.
Be intentional. Be consistent.
i heard someone say “nothing destroys a relationship faster than watching your partner show up for other people in ways that they don’t show up for you” and that’s the part that kills relationships because they have the capability, they just chose not to provide for you.
Stop letting people consume you. They didn’t call? Go to sleep. They didn’t message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn’t make an effort? Match their energy. Don't let anyone drain you of your happiness.
You deserve to be someone’s only choice. Not an option they keep around while they figure out what they want, not someone they come back to when nothing else works, and never someone who makes you question where you stand. You deserve a love that is certain, intentional, and proud to choose you every single day. Someone who sees you, values you, and never makes you compete for a place that should already be yours.