We need to regulate our emotions and protect our sobriety the way Kyrie Irving handles a basketball; with control, patience, and purpose. That’s how we stay sober without letting our emotions be stolen by toxicity, negativity, codependency, and addiction.
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PADDLE SHIFTERS – THE CAPACITY OF SELF-REGULATION
The paddle shifters are two levers mounted behind the steering wheel that allow an F1 driver to change gears without taking their hands off the wheel. ...
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Maybe the urge to escape isn’t weakness. Maybe our emotional exhaust is clogged.
Pressure builds until it finds an unhealthy way out.
Recovery is learning to unclog the exhaust.
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Not everything in life calls for the same energy. Different situations require different gears.
Learning when to engage the right gear (intensity of a particular good emotion) is key to healing and growth.
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The steering wheel is what enables us to direct our healing journey. It helps us navigate triggers and potential setbacks, and moments of vulnerability and moments of strength in sobriety. It represents the choices and decisions we make inspired by hope.
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STEERING WHEEL – CHOICES INSPIRED BY HOPE
In the continuation of the F1 And Mental Health Series, I want to talk about the steering wheel.
The steering wheel of a Formula 1 car is often described as “a computer with handles attached.”
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Many parts of an F1 car are custom-made rather than bought off the shelf.
Recovery is the same.
There is no one size fits all formula for healing. The strongest recoveries are custom built.
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When gears lock, movement (growth) stops.
That’s what codependency is in relationships. The relationship should shift to another level, but it’s locked.
A weaker yet faster gear locks onto a stronger, slower one.
Neither gear turns. Neither person grows.
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The halo is made from aerospace-grade titanium to protect the driver from crashes.
You need something aerospace-grade titanium too to protect your sobriety- that’s Acceptance.
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Before an F1 driver competes at 300 km/h, they first slow down and walk it.
Before we race toward change, we often need to slow down and walk through our lives, slowly examining, and understanding the terrain of our inner selves.
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When the car stops- intentionally or unintentionally, we “remove the wheel” to step away from the controls, create space, and allow ourselves to recover before taking on the next challenge in healing and growth.
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It's in refueling that we get the strength that works the engine to complete the laps ahead.
It is in tapping into our emotional and spiritual reserves that we find the strength to keep moving forward, making progress within ourselves to heal and grow.
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An F1 driver is careful about what they eat before taking on the race.
We need the same prudence before taking on emotional healing. The inspiration we let in, the guidance we follow, and the counsel we open up our hearts to all shape how well we heal.
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One of the things that has helped me most on my journey of 14 years of sobriety is learning to stop regularly to reflect, recalibrate, and reinvent myself. It was during one of those pauses that the idea of merging F1 And Mental Health was born.
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The parts of an F1 car that people rarely notice are often the very things that keep it performing at its best.
It is the work you do behind the scenes, unnoticed and unseen, that brings about the deepest healing, the greatest growth, and lasting sobriety.
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Just as an F1 car depends on countless unseen systems working in harmony, our mental health depends on the quiet, often invisible work we do within ourselves…
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THE INVISIBLE FORCES THAT SHAPE PERFORMANCE: CONCLUDING F1 AERODYNAMICS
As I conclude this exploration of Formula 1 aerodynamics, I am reminded that some of the most powerful forces in life, much like the air around an F1 car, are invisible.
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The smallest adjustment can change the outcome of an entire race.
One deep conversation had with nothing left behind, can change the outcome of one’s healing and growth entirely.
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