“Jealousy is so funny because you’re mad at me for something that was never going to belong to you. And now you wasting energy being envious of my blessing(s) when you could be claiming yours.” - Justin
Unlearn desirability so you stop believing bullshit like this, respectfully.
How you look should never be a determinant on what you deserve and the standards you set for yourself.
Showed my son what I was planning to wear to his graduation. He was quiet for a bit then said, “ I thought we were going to match?” I told him I wanted him to shine on his day then immediately went into my room and cried. He actually wanted to match! My heart is so full LMFAAAOO
Healing is when you become harder to fool & easier to love. And maturing is realising you’re not just picking a partner. You’re picking how safe it’ll feel later. You’re choosing the soil from which your next seasons of self esteem will grow… or rot.