People don't realise just how broken Nigeria and Nigerians are. A criminal, a common thief, the person who tells old white women they love them just to steal their money is treated with much more regard than an educated person earning an honest living.
Everything about this place disgusts me.
One thing I’m happy about is that I can swing both ways extremely. If it’s intense love you want that one dey, if it’s intense nonchala you want that one still dey and it all depends on how you treat me.
If I want to cook for my husband and you don’t want to cook for yours, why then are you angry about the fact that I want to when I am not angry about the fact that you don’t want to????
People don’t talk enough about how much work a healthy relationship requires. It’s rewarding, but it’s A LOT. The pruning, compromise, hard conversations, regulating emotions, apologizing… and choosing each other daily. Rewarding but alot!