@Waterprivacy@metal_monkee@centristlol@tylerdeanv Just out of curiosity, do you know what a post of trans man looks like? They have penises. Like, functional penises. The whole point of what they said is not every trans man still has a vagina
@nicholasluvie@centristlol@tylerdeanv This is exactly what I meant lol. Didn’t listen to a word I said or try to engage with the argument. Just loud, wrong, and it looks like I touched a nerve for you. OP is living proof that not every gay man thinks like you. Clearly you’ve been hurt in some way, I hope you heal.
@nicholasluvie@centristlol@tylerdeanv -those men are attracted to men. Not women. Not even trans women, who (mostly) have penises
If your sexuality is based on genitalia only that’s good for you. But that isn’t everybody, and it’s worth it to recognize that not everybody thinks the same way you do about sexuality
@nicholasluvie@centristlol@tylerdeanv There’s a difference. Let me give you an example.
If a gay man is attracted to a cis man and a trans man, but not a woman… what they are attracted to is the gender costume, the social role, etc.
You can insist those people are bisexual all you want, but at the end of the day-
@nicholasluvie@centristlol@tylerdeanv I don’t even think you know how to answer that question. That’s not even a dig at you, I assume you mean biological sex and not manhood, but “what it means to be a man” is an incredibly loaded question that every man on earth will have a different answer to. Cis or otherwise
@Waterprivacy@centristlol@tylerdeanv And that’s aight. But the guy I’m replying to is saying it like fucking a trans man automatically means you have to fuck a vagina lol. Not true at all
@centristlol@tylerdeanv If you’re aight with a dildo, there are trans dudes out there who top with gear. Nobody’s saying you have to like that either, but there’s options out there other than PIV.
@centristlol@tylerdeanv I think some people forget not all trans guys do PIV. Or bottom at all. I know several personally who are backdoor only or top only because PIV is a dysphoric experience for them.
@maripocel I had a friend explain it to me like this: it’s like when you first start playing guitar and don’t have callouses yet. The skin has to get used to suddenly having more friction. It’s not like, a forever thing whatsoever.