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(he/they) just posts art sometimes these days

[kivan @KivanBay]

New pinned tweet with links:

I do art and writing and stuff

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[kivan @KivanBay]

This cough is making it hard to breathe

[Gina Ippolito @GinaIppy]

I am once again wishing a happy Circulatory System Walking Through the Kitchen Day to all who celebrate.

[kivan @KivanBay]

I used to work as a cook in a drag bar and whenever this discourse starts I just try to bite my tongue because hoo boy.

[kivan @KivanBay]

Please, we can't do the drag discourse again. This place feels like being stuck in a timeloop

[kivan @KivanBay]

A butch taking T in no way takes away from my identity as a trans man, a trans man not taking T in no way takes away from my identity as a trans man, because I'm a trans man all the time. We should all learn to mind our own fucking business a little more.

[kivan @KivanBay]

I think as a trans people we should probably care a lot less about other people's decisions about whether or not they're going on hormones, not matter if they're trans or GNC. I think we should just let people make their own choices around their own bodies?

[kivan @KivanBay]

@FantasticCr_ff Sunk cost is an excellent way to describe it, it drove a lot of my decisions as well

[kivan @KivanBay]

Once this happens, you need to get out of the relationship because it will only get worse and you will be what your abuser puts hands on. Trust me.

[The Road Jess Travelled @JessPected]

This is domestic violence. Destruction of property is also domestic violence. It's intimidation & violent assertion of control over a victim. It can also be, as appears in this case, a means of destroying the victim's independence & ability to escape. He's going to kill her.

[kivan @KivanBay]

@MJW2022 Probably that's part of it, but also people just tend to be less self absorbed when talking in person. Anyway, hope you find your people!

[kivan @KivanBay]

The way some people talk about trans men on this site does make me wish I was stealth, but I'm really glad I have irl queer community. Just have to remember that things are very different offline.

[kivan @KivanBay]

Because people don't act like that in person usually, and if someone does, they get shut down in my experience. I heard somewhere once that something that causes road rage is the fact that we're all in our separate cars and that distance allows for it. Twitter feels like that.

[kivan @KivanBay]

I'm actually going to add as a bi person that you are way less likely to get ragebaited in an in person social setting with a group of actual people. Every year there's bi people are pride discourse and I'm starting to think it's all people who don't actually go to pride events

[kivan @KivanBay]

@suchnerve Thing about grief is it doesn't leave. Your heart grows larger, and the grief inside it crowds it less. To grieve a loved one is a way to keep loving them. We say ghosts are frightening, but it would be worse, I think, to not be haunted, to lose the capacity to miss who we love

[Chainsawroll🍉🌮✨ @chainsawroll]

Where to put the cow by Anita Griffin

Very good for learning composition !

https://t.co/LhA65wFyCO

[Arvind @PizzazzyCalvin]

Reposting these two wonderful poems cuz this is the point of it all 🫶🏽

Having a Coke with You by Frank O'Hara

Having "Having a Coke with You" with You by Mark Leidner

[kivan @KivanBay]

OUTLIER · Day 172 · 920 · 🦅 EAGLE EYES
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🎯 4 words nobody else has found yet · 🦄 6 found by under 1% of players
🚩 2 Pioneer words: nobody had ever found them before
Can you find rarer?
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[kivan @KivanBay]

My Outlier pro strat is feminism and I'm not even kidding

[kivan @KivanBay]

@mossbrick5368 I am, thank you!