my grown woman era is really just me asking, “does this actually align with the life i’m trying to build?” before i say yes to anything. if it doesn’t, i’m not forcing it just because it sounds good in the moment.
best thing i ever decided to do was just be quiet..... i have nothing to say. i'm not convincing nobody that i'm a great person, i'm not trying to fix shit i didn't break. i'm not fighting for nobody to see my worth. whatever you do is on you, better hope you don't regret it.