Please date a man who believes in romance & provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you and honouring your heart in whatever ways he can & you deserve all of that >
Men are out here losing sleep, chasing bags, just to spend it on women who wouldnβt lift a finger if they were starving. Thatβs not hustle, thatβs slavery in designer.
One day, Iβll be loved, and not lusted over. Iβll be loved, not by mouth, but by effort & action. To be seen, heard, understood & considered in all decisions. Iβll be loved fully & not non-chalantly. Iβll be love and trusted. Iβll be loved without bounds & tenderly cared for.
my mom once told me "waiting for someone to act correctly is a disrespect to yourself. you're compromising your worth just because someone can't fully afford it." and i felt that.