Major cheat code in life: Be the one who reaches out. Text first. Call first. Plan first. Initialize first. Most people wait to be chosen. Be the chooser. Connection requires initiative. Friendship requires effort. Love requires action. Stop waiting to be picked. Start picking. Initiative is attractive.
We need to start a “niggas in their 30s with no kids” association.
I think we face many similar struggles and could exchange notes on a lot of things. 🤔