SleepySalem

just a small, bi bean in a big, scary world | 23 | she/her | taken | cree and proud

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@MarcBar59767085 @Saiaxs @ComicLoverMari She was actually a victim of femicide, but thankfully, is now working hard to protect other women. That’s why the acid thing is so important to her. Cuz it happened to her. I think she’s a cellist too?

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@MarcBar59767085 @Saiaxs @ComicLoverMari One of the women that accused him was a feminist who is trying to get acid classified as, I think, femicide. Because there’s whole culture of men objectifying women and thinking that their face is all they have, so, when the men feel wronged, they throw acid in their face.

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@ceIestiaIover @kyoruyeye Pearl? Is that a reference to that new horror movie from awhile ago?

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@NeversleepsI @ComicLoverMari Thankfully I have fine hair so it’s like a maintenance thing I do once every two-three weeks. I can’t imagine having the patience for a whole body shave. That’s way too much shower time lol

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@kirawontmiss Lol they think if they’re not shooting up, it’s not a big deal. Which is kinda crazy

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

My space is a safe place for me and my mutuals. It’s not meant for strangers who feel like getting their punches in

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

Great, now strangers feel like harassing me on my account for pointing out something being abusive.

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

Just fuck off if you don’t like me

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@Esoteric_Econ @dyingscribe Because I’m already having an episode trying to clarify things and I don’t need to. I know what I said and I’m gonna protect my peace and people can do what they want

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@Esoteric_Econ @dyingscribe I’m not even miscommunicating anymore. It’s past that. I clarified several times. It is making a villain out of me, if they’re holding to ignore the fact I clarified the miscommunication.
So, yeah, I’m going to choose to move on with my day.

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@Esoteric_Econ @dyingscribe I was clear several times it was the behaviour I’m condemning, not the man. So whatever

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@Esoteric_Econ @dyingscribe Look, I don’t care. People are gonna make villains outta strangers regardless. I get harassed for no reason anyways. I just don’t care. I was clear and if people want to make me a villain or whatever, let them. They’ll do what makes them feel vindicated

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@nicumkoro If you think I’m misgendering my family members, who have agreed and loved the things I called them. Then go f*ck yourself. Not everyone is in the same situation as you. Not everything is malicious. My family is my business. Not yours

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@nicumkoro My momma is two spirit and now prefers male pronouns. My sisters call them papa. But momma is momma to me and they said that too. And I still call my siblings my sisters, cuz we were always the three sisters. Like in indigenous stories. But jazzy is enby (non binary).

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@Esoteric_Econ @dyingscribe Sorry if you read into my words

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@Esoteric_Econ @dyingscribe I’m autistic. When I say something, it doesn’t have hidden meanings or stupid implications. I’m just trying to educate people and heal the world

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

Like, my mums abused me but they’re still good people. They did what they could with the resources they could.
They apologized and they are still struggling to move past it.
As am I.
But I know they’re good people.
They just made bad mistakes

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

How does pointing out how something is abusive equate to that person is abusive?
Plenty of people who are good people do abusive things.
We’re human. We fuck up.
It doesn’t mean pointing out the abuse is calling you an abuser.
It’s literally pointing out behaviour to prevent it

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

So dumb. I hate talking to people sometimes. Cuz they just want to make a villain out of somebody and they just want to control perception of the situation.

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@Esoteric_Econ @dyingscribe And I don’t agree with that. Because reactive abuse is a thing and reactive abusers are not abusers and it isn’t intentional at all

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@Esoteric_Econ @dyingscribe Everyone can make abusive decisions. It’s the good decisions that we make every day that define us. That’s why I point out abuse. To prevent behaviour

[SleepySalem @KnightlySalem]

@Esoteric_Econ @dyingscribe Yes, what he did was emotional abuse. It does not mean he’s an abuser. Like, fuck. If someone threatens to hit you cuz you’re annoying the fuck outta them and you won’t leave them alone, does that make them an abuser? No, they just need better behavioural choices