I just spent my last 2 hours explaining to someone how omitting information makes them a liar . And not telling me something and manipulating the situation so i don’t find out makes them a liar lmao
They shooting the messenger, but she ain’t wrong. Dating and sex were heavily demonized in a lot of our homes. We were told to stay away from boys and focus on school. The problem is that relationships are a skill set too and many Black women were prepared for careers but left to figure out dating, boundaries, and healthy partnership on our own.
“I want the boy to be a loser for the girl”
“I want the girl to be chased”
“I want the boy love the girl more”
Repeat all of these things in y’all minds slowly very slowly