Sadness isn’t weakness. Crying is just a way to let it out, like working out, journaling, drawing, or taking a walk. Letting emotions flow is the point. Just telling yourself ‘I’m really struggling right now’ and admitting it is already the first step to healing
"Sometimes anger is just armor for people dealing with trauma, a way to push back against despair. But if you keep it on all the time, it’ll eventually crush you. Reaching out and leaning on others, sharing that helplessness together, can stop the fire from burning up tomorrow"
the only thing cheng xiaoshi seems to be oblivious about is clocking ppl having feelings for one another like with xu shanshan and dong yi and the fact that his best friend is a walking pride flag who threw the first brick at stonewall
chengguang ship names 😹
1) heibai/black and white
2) chenguang shi lu/gathering dew at dawn
3) dog and cat
4) cheng laoban & his hired sugar baby 😭
5) cg
6) lu xuedi & the xuezhang who smashed a basketball in his face 😭
7) 'idiot' and 'teenage boy'
8) tokihika
9) 🖤🤍