a girl on tik tok just said “I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect” and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
ADD is: -Cleaning your office upstairs, needing more paper towel-, SO going downstairs & doing some dishes while you’re on the main floor, going down to the basement to do a load of laundry, cleaning more on main floor, & coming back upstairs without paper towel