The key to life is just LETTING THINGS BE. You can't sit around wondering why this happened or didn't happen. It don't matter, make peace with situations & move on.
no one talks about the personality shift as you get older. where you no longer want to be impressive, you want to be rested. you want to be regulated and completely unavailable to anything that drains you.
make duʿāʾ to Allāh for a heart that is soft, forgiving, and gentle and one that does not harden or turn bitter out of resentment or hatred towards people.
may the purity of hearts be the very reason our ranks are elevated near Allāh سبحانه و تعالى
everybody wants peace until they realize peace means changing your tone when speaking with someone who has irritated you, no longer making everything an argument, listening before responding, setting boundaries and understanding boundaries others have set.