A young man sits down for a meal, no matter how tasty it is, unpleasant memories of dishes he ate years ago overtake him, so he canโt enjoy his food.
You must keep your feet grounded so firmly on the earth that itโs like you have four legs, instead of two. That way, you can stay in the world. But you must stop looking at the world through your head. You must look through your heart, that way you will know God.
And men have the subtle pressure that they need to be more aggressive because they think that thatโs what women want. But probably both of them donโt want but they both think that itโs normal.
The culture of aggressive sex and touching is has really REALLY increased. Why is that? Like why almost, this is more in teenagers now and Gen Alpha and - Gen Z, they almost think that women think choking is almost normal and they would want to have that cause how things are done
We do thereโs one kind of emotional labor that men are socialized to be better at, which is something called emotional containment. So if someone is falling apart, you as a man can handle that.
We as dudes suck at touching our wives. Because we donโt spend time learning how to touch, and this is going to sound kind of weird, like touching women or men in a way to make them feel good. Because touch is way more than sex.
We are letting ourselves down. Not just the government but us, the citizens, the consumers, the voters, the people who keep re-electing the same nincompoops, keep accepting the same excuses, keep saying- โCHALTA HAIโ
Private school because the GVT school has no teachers. Private hospital because the GVT hospital has no beds. Gated community because the public street has pavement. Air purifier because the public air has no oxygen.