Krista Bernhard

TikTok @Krista_Ra3 // learn to love yourself with me 💋

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

The amount of posts I see on Facebook asking for advice in what to get husbands or kids for Christmas astonishes me. Do you not spend every single day with these people? Do you not know them like at all? I'm so confused.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

The prices people try to sell their used items for on Facebook marketplace is hysterical.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

Is this what parenting is? Making up the most irrational fears that have absolutely no merit to justify being controlling or forcing your child to life a sheltered life? 😅

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

A mom literally posted about her fear that her son will get snatched up if he goes and knocks on the door of someone's home whilst trick or treating and all I can think is how irrational that is because 1. You're literally there 2. You literally know where they live lolol what?

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

The amount of bullshit I've had to go through to simply try to get out of this shitty car loan is insane and I STILL can't do it. I'm so frustrated.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

#basichumanrights #RoeVsWade #womensrights #womensrightsarehumanrights #AbortionRightsAreHumanRights #AbortionIsHealthcare

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

Can't we stop with the mullets again 🤦‍♀️ some things deserve to stay in the past

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

I don't want to keep sitting back and letting someone else define me.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

I don't want to keep being afraid.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

I want to spend the next 15 years happy, focused on me, my life, my future, my family.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

I spent the first 15 years of my life being forced to grow up too fast, and I've spent the next 15 years of my life facing traumatic experience after traumatic experience.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

And I have never truly loved or believed in myself because I have had so many things putting me down for nearly 30 years.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

It's amazing how our body can block out trauma so we don't relive it every single day and feel constant pain.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

I haven't believed in myself because my whole life has been filled with traumatic experiences and I literally have years of time blocked from my memory to protect me.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

What I've learned most about myself is that in order for me to give my best to anyone in my life, I have to believe in myself.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

I've learned so much this year already and we're only 4 months in.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

I decided to learn how to take care of my skin and hair, and learn how to do makeup in more of an art form.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

This year, I've decided to invest more in myself so I can truly love myself and do things I love and enjoy instead of just living day to day.

[Krista Bernhard @Krista_Ra3]

When you have to spend a little bit more at the gas station, the grocery store, or on other basic needs for a while, remember and be thankful that you're not suiting up in military gear in your home to fight the war happening on your doorstep. Change your perspective.

[HavenLighting @HavenLighting]

If you can't #celebrate at the #FestivalOfColors, let your #landscapelighting help you celebrate from home. #HappyHoli!

#havenlighting #smartlighting #shareyourstory #outdoorlighting #rgbwlighting #colorlighting #Holi