BPD is one of the only disorders you’re not born with. it can develop due to environmental-factors while growing up (drug addicted household, parent abandonment, emotional neglect, physical abuse, etc) compounded with years of trauma. BPD brains are wired for intense emotional reactivity, featuring a hyperactive amygdala (fear center of the brain) and an under-active prefrontal cortex (rational, control center). Increased fear and decreased rational thinking.
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I go absolutely ape shit buck wild when people ask me if i want to run errands with them like Let’s Fucking Go. my mind absolutely maxes out of dopamine when they ask if i wanna stop for coffee. if someone took me to the park i'd go bonkers in funcking yonkers
As a weed smoker myself I can’t smoke with people who don’t have smokers etiquette. Like bruh I know you see elders and children around put the blunt out and hit it
"We're like a family here" is corporate code for "we are going to cross every single one of your personal boundaries, guilt-trip you for taking your earned PTO, and expect unconditional loyalty while giving you absolutely nothing in return."
If a job description says they have a "family culture," run.
You can not know anyone completely, just pray whatever they are hiding wouldn't break you when you find out. The life out there is real, strange and different