Kunmi

Truth seeker

[心灵书舫 | SoulSloop @SoulSloop99]

有哪些独到的识人技巧？

1、没见过世面的人，都爱嘚瑟；见过世面
的人，都很深沉。
2、真正厉害的人，往往都很低调。
3、不合群的人，心里有目标。
4、一群中，如果你看不出谁笨，那笨的那
个人就是你。

5、房间收拾很干净的人，心通常比较狠。
6、满口仁义道德的人一般都自私；
7、嘴巴太快的人，往往没什么城府。
8、你一说话，就反驳你的人，就是对你有
意见。

9、第 一眼看不惯的人，最好保持距离，要
相信你的第六感。
10、一个人假笑，眼角是没有皱纹的。
11、看起来聪明的人一般都是小聪明。
12、一个人和你强调不是钱的事，那就是钱
的事。

13、没有爽快答你，就是在明确的拒绝你。
14、常常在你面前夸你的人，在和别人聊天
时说你的坏话最多。
15、初次见面就和你聊得来，并且会让你觉
得跟他在一起很舒服，那说明这个人智商情
商一定在你之上，而且能够向下兼容你。

16、看一个人的人品，主要看他怎么对待弱
者。看一个人的实力，主要看他怎么对待强
者。
17、能当众捧你的人，不一定是真朋友，但
私下给你建议的人，往往更值得珍惜。
18、不合群的人，要么是过度自卑，要么有
过人之处，一般都值得深交。而那些自来熟
的人，往往不会对你一个人忠诚，很难守得
住秘密，可以来往，不建议深交。

19、层次低的人，反驳欲往往越强。
20、凡事动不动就生气的人，没有一个智
者，生活多半也过得一团糟。
21、默不作声的人，要么在闷声发大财，要
么在韬光养晦积蓄能量。
22、全身上下穿金戴银的，一般是读书势力
庸俗之人。

23、见人就掏心掏肺的人一般比较单纯，没
有心机，容易受伤。
24、甜言蜜语的人一般目的性比较强。
25、欺软怕硬的往往是小人。

26、判断一个人的人品好坏，除了观察其行
为外，还应考虑其社交圈子的质量。一个人
的朋友类型往往能反映出其自身的品性和价
值观。
27、通过观察一个人的子女，我们可以初步
了解他们的教育方式和家庭氛围。一个优秀
的孩子往往背后有一个懂得教育的家庭。

28、吃饭时，如果大家都在欢声笑语，而某
人却低头玩手机，可能说明他对在场的人或
话题不感兴趣。
29、对于突然升温的友情，你可一定要小
心，因为无事献殷勤，奸即盗，突然的讨
好，一定要多留个心眼。

30、成年人的社交，犹豫就是客套。比
如"我请你"，和"我请你吧"就是两个意
思。
31、你越爱一个人，越容易被那个人折磨。
把自己放在第一位，有爱自己的能力是爱别
人的前提。
32、一个真正优秀的人会在暗处野蛮生长，
在没有人的地方仍自律。

33、你多学一样本事，就少说一句求人的
话。
34、被刺激而不动怒的人，可能是"笑面
虎"。自控力太强的人，别掉以轻心。
35、话少的人有两种极端： 要么脑子太简
单；要么就是深不可测。

36、判断一个人到底如何，看看他最亲近的
朋友就知道了。
37、有点权势就喜欢指指点点的人，通常只
是个小角色。
38、喜欢把小账算得太清的人，通常没什么
大格局。
39、遇事儿就找借口推卸责任的人，通常都
混得不好。

40、很会寒暄，懂得嘘寒问暖的人未必真热
情；沉默寡言，不懂问候的人，未必真冷
漠。真正热忱的人止于言，动于行。
41、一个人越是大张旗鼓的想引起你关注什
么，他有可能越是想通过这种方式掩盖什
么。

42、要嫁就嫁帅哥，没钱至少还能看脸。风
流跟长相没有直接联系，长得丑的男人不容
易出轨，是因为他们没有条件罢了。
43、别用龌龊的眼光看待身材苗条，经常去
健身房的女生。其实她们自律性极强，很值
得学习。

43、看一个人，不要只看他自己，还要看他
最亲密的朋友。
44、不轻易承诺，一旦承诺了，就能做到的
人通常比较靠谱。
45、背叛过你一次的人还会背叛你，如果你
不知道他为什么背叛你，你的原谅就是对自
己残忍。

[Foundational Nupe Lawyer @egi_nupe]

Our own cleaner was using office logo for content😂😂😂 the funniest part was that this girl never appeared to be anyone capable of doing such thing. We had to make her delete them all

[Dr Dípò Awójídé @OgbeniDipo]

RT this if you are going to vote for BAT in 2027.

[Geekay @gkbalogs]

It’s the beginning of the year. Every business wants to grow. Energy is high, enthusiasm is up, and the plans are bold, optimistic, sometimes unrealistic. I love it! I’ve been there many times.

But the truth is, sometimes you simply can’t afford that growth, no matter how good the plans sound. Growth usually eats cash long before it produces it. Every new hire, new channel, new location, new client, and ad campaign hits your bank account first, way before it shows up in revenues and your bottom line. It really does take money to make money.

For small businesses, this means you have to be deliberate. Before adding more, ask yourself if you can get more out of what you already have. Review your pricing, take a send look at your cost structure, cut waste, and shorten how long it takes to turn sales into cash. Test new products, locations, or marketing ideas on a small scale before fully committing.

Focus first on moves that can bring in cash quickly. And most importantly, grow at a pace your cash flow can comfortably handle, not one driven by excitement or pressure.

Just as important, plan for the cash that will drive the growth. Ask yourself where that money will come from. Will it be from increased sales, retained profits, loans, investors, or support from friends and family? If the source isn’t clear, the growth plan probably isn’t ready.

Sustainable growth comes from discipline, good timing, and respect for cash, not just bold plans.

[Kunmi @Kunmilade]

@AbangMercy It was systematic.
Nigeria is next after Libya

[Valerie Anne Smith @ValerieAnne1970]

"Synthetic Artificial Sweeteners Cause Damage To The Brain."
Dr Robert Lustig, MD

Chemical Sweetener Use Showed 289% Increase In Alzheimer's Disease.

And 296% Greater Risk Of Ischemic Stroke.

Daily Consumption Of These 6 Sweeteners Are Linked To Alzheimer's Dementia & Stroke.

Some sugar substitutes come with consequences for long-term brain health...

The artificial sweeteners examined were aspartame, sucralose, saccharin, acesulfame-K, erythritol, xylitol & sorbitol.

These are found in ultra-processed foods like flavored water, soda, energy drinks, yogurt, diet candy, low calorie desserts, ice cream, etc. Some are also used as a standalone sweetener.

Low- & no-calorie sweeteners are seen as a healthy alternative to sugar, research data shows certain sweeteners have very negative & harmful effects on brain health over time.

The daily consumption of the amount of sweetener in just 1 can of diet soda with these artificial sugar substitutes showed 63% decline in cognitive function over the course of 8 years.

The measured amount of artificial sweetener equates to approximately 1 teaspoon or 190 milligrams. 1 can of diet soda contains 200-300 milligrams of artificial sweetener.

The findings are the latest to warn about the dangers posed by sweeteners. Previous studies on these sweeteners have already shown an increase risk of a range of diseases including type 2 diabetes, cancer, heart problems, depression & dementia, and damage the endothelial gut wall.

Aspartame: Synthetically made by modifying Aspartic Acid & Phenylalanine. Linked to kidney & liver damage, anxiety, cognitive decline & DNA damage.
Sucralose: Chemically made by replacing 3 hydroxyl groups with chlorine. It is a neurotoxin & carcinogen.
Saccharin: Made from Toluene Coal Tar & undergoes oxidation, chlorination & ammoniation synthesis. Linked to bladder cancer & altered gut microbiome.
Acesulfame-K: Laboratory made from reacting acetoacetic acid with fluorosulfonyl isocyanate. Linked to coronary heart disease, cancer & type 2 diabetes.
Erythritol: Synthesized from GMO Corn. Causal for cardiovascular events & cerebrovascular damage.
Xylitol: Commercially made from birch trees & GMO Corn. Can Cause GI distress. Highly toxic & deadly to dogs.
Sorbitol: Synthetically made from GMO Corn. Causes blood glucose spikes & GI distress along with cognitive damage.

Non Nutritive Sweeteners Found To Be Safe:
Allulose
Monk Fruit
Stevia Leaf (If you do not have pre-existing heart issues or ragweed allergy, it is safe for most people)

Safe Natural Sugar For Those Who Consume Carbs:
Raw Honey
Coconut Sugar
Unrefined/Unbleached Turbinado Sugar
Maple Syrup
Molasses
Date Sugar

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👇No Calorie Sweeteners & Cognitive Decline👇
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👇8 Year Study On Cognitive Decline: Sweeteners👇
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Speakers: Steven Bartlett & Dr Robert Lustig, MD
Podcast: @Diary_Of_A_CEO
Video: @theneurofactory

[Kunmi @Kunmilade]

@Morris_Monye It's not dated

[Dr Tolu @tolubinutu]

Parents in Nigeria: you see this 400g of Milo your kids drink every morning?

It has more sugar than SIX cans of Coke.

Yet, Nestlé sells healthier, low-sugar versions abroad.

I studied this & here’s what i found.

Walk with me

[Worldly @WorldlyHQ]

How to Grow Potatoes at Home Using Just One Potato

What You’ll Need
A sprouted or seed potato
A large container (10–15 gallons) with drainage holes
Potting soil or compost
Optional: natural fertilizer
Water
Step-by-Step Guide
1. Prepare the Potato
Cut the sprouted potato into two or three chunks, ensuring each piece has at least one "eye" or sprout.
Let the pieces air-dry for about 24 hours—this helps form a protective layer to prevent rot when planted.

2. Set Up the Container
Fill the bottom of the container with 4 to 6 inches (10 to 15 cm) of soil.
Mix in a little natural fertilizer if you wish to give your crop a nutritional boost.

3. Planting the Potato Pieces
Place the dried potato chunks on the soil surface with the eyes facing up.
Cover them with another layer of soil—just enough to hide the pieces.
4. Watering

Keep the soil consistently moist, but not waterlogged.
Water only when the top layer of soil feels dry to the touch.

5. Hilling the Soil
As the plants grow, gradually add more soil around the base of the stems.
This technique encourages the plant to form more tubers along the buried stems.

6. Light Requirements
Ensure the container gets plenty of direct sunlight—aim for at least 6 to 8 hours each day for optimal growth.

7. Harvesting Your Potatoes
After about 10 to 12 weeks, the plant’s leaves will begin to yellow and die back.
This signals it's time to harvest. Gently empty the container and collect your homegrown potatoes.

Extra Tips
Choose a deep, well-draining container to prevent root rot.
Avoid planting potatoes that show signs of disease or rot.
Keep young plants protected from late-season frost.
Harvesting is simple: just tip the container over and sift through the soil.

[Kunmi @Kunmilade]

@egi_nupe

[Dr Kelechi Okoro | Ebonyi Babe @healthertainer]

I am not against prayers or spiritual warfare but any religious leader that tells you to stop your medications or quit treatment is a fraud. A wicked and inhumane person and a threat to life.

After the so called deliverance, go to the hospital for check up and I assure you, you ll see the need to continue treatment.

It’s not a curse. Neither is it magic.

[Kunmi @Kunmilade]

@Nifemi_Olu You can't teach an old dog new tricks but it can LEARN!

[Kunmi @Kunmilade]

@iyaboawokoya Happy birthday ma'am 🎉🥳

[Kunmi @Kunmilade]

@adeyanjudeji I thought he was abducted and his face covered 🤔

[Foundational Nupe Lawyer @egi_nupe]

10 tips on tenancy law:

1. Do not pay rent over any property without physical inspection. If you have complaints on the physical condition, insist that the property is fixed and put in good condition before you move in. Otherwise, you are presumed to have agreed to take the as it is.

2. Do not pay rent and move into the property without a written agreement signed by both tenant and landlord.

3. Before you do any structural renovation in the property, make sure you have A WRITTEN CONSENT OF THE LANDLORD and make sure your landlord either agrees to refund the money spent on renovation, in the event of ejection or net it off your next rent. In the absence of agreement, even if you spend billions renovating the property, you are on your own.

4. Make sure you engage a lawyer to advise you on your tenancy at all times. Don’t trust your landlord’s lawyer only and ensure your landlord knows that you have a lawyer.

5. When you receive a notice to quit or court paper from your landlord, do not ignore it. Make sure you immediately engage your lawyer to advise you appropriately. Do not wait till the period given in the notice lapses before engaging a lawyer.

6. You cannot destroy a property because the landlord refuses to refund your caution fee or deposit or unused rent or money used for renovations. If you do, you can be liable to pay damages for the damage done to the property and can be charge for malicious damage to property which attracts imprisonment for 2years.

7. If your rent or tenancy has expired or your tenancy is due for renewal and 6months notice to quit is issued, you will be liable to pay for every additional days or months you spend on the property. So notice period is not free period to stay without paying the landlord.

8. If you have to leave a property after your tenancy, you have obligation to hand over the property in a reasonable and tenantable condition, save for reasonable wears and tears. Any major damage caused to the property while it’s in your care, you must fix or be sued for damages.

9. Your landlord cannot arbitrarily or unilaterally increase rent. Rent is contractual and cannot be imposed without affording the tenant the opportunity to negotiate. If it’s unreasonably high, you can go to court to determine the rent.

10. Your landlord cannot eject you from the property while you are in court to determine what’s reasonable as rent.

[Geekay @gkbalogs]

Back in 2018, six of our customer service reps resigned within one month. But I was relieved, because it was clear they weren’t the right fit for the customer service culture we were building. One of the hardest battles I’ve fought is building a customer-first culture in my business, because when you're doing that in Nigeria, it goes beyond just training people, you’re fighting against deep-rooted habits, a broken system, and years of programming.

Back to my story, the reason they left was because of our high service standards.

Some complained we were too tolerant of customers’ “excesses.” I didn’t agree. Customers are the reason we exist. Yes, customers sometimes spoke harshly (which I never condoned), but retaliation wasn’t an option, and they didn’t like it. They also hated how readily we gave refunds and replacements, but for me, a refund or two is a small price to pay for long-term trust. One of their funniest complaints was, “When we step out, no one treats us nicely. Why should we treat customers like kings?” That mismatch between external experience and internal expectation was hard for them to accept.

To be fair, back then, our delivery service was really bad. 95% of complaints were about late deliveries, and frontline staff took a lot of heat. I understood, but even then, our job was to manage the customers, not mirror the customer’s frustration (thankfully, shoutout to @chowdeck, things are much better today!)

Here’s what I learned during this period:

1.     Be ruthless about your culture. Define it clearly. Spell out what’s non-negotiable. Codify it if you have to: policies, SOPs, training manuals. And don’t just train it once; repeat it consistently. Back then, I ran at least 10 customer service training sessions a year. Celebrate and reward the right behaviours. Share success stories. Reinforce it daily.

2.     Hire for culture fit, not just skills. Technical ability is important, but attitude and values matter even more. And after hiring, don’t wait too long to assess their fit early. Cut losses fast if necessary.

3.     Protect your standards, even when it's uncomfortable. You will lose people. Some will resist. Some will leave. It’s part of the process. Don’t lower your standards to accommodate those who are not willing to grow with you.

4.     Don’t let short-term pain kill your long-term vision. It's tempting to react emotionally when customers or staff "abuse" the system. But your brand is bigger than one difficult customer or one disgruntled staff member. Stay focused on the bigger picture.

5.     Fix systemic problems, not just symptoms. Our delivery issues back then taught me this. You can have the best customer service team, but if your systems are broken, they’ll constantly be firefighting, and eventually burn out.

You don’t build culture by what you say, you build by what you enforce and what you reward. And trust me, it’ll be worth it in the end.

[Liverpool FC @LFC]

You'll Never Walk Alone ❤️

[Geekay @gkbalogs]

Most entrepreneurs rightly start out with the obvious stuff: THE PRODUCT (what can I sell to make money?), THE CUSTOMER (what do people need that I can provide?), THE LOCATION (how do I reach them, physical, online, or both?), and other operational details. These are all important, no doubt. But often, we get blindsided by other key areas that can quietly make or break a business down the line.

1. Structure: No Systems, Formal Structure, or Documentation

What can go wrong?
If everything lives in your head, and there are no formalized way of what and how people work, chaos will show up once your team starts growing, leading to inconsistent service, poor decisions, and stress.

What to do:
Start building systems early. Even if it’s just a simple 1-pager, document your processes, SOPs (Standard Operating Procedures) are a lifesaver. Have clear roles, JDs and org structure.

2. Cash Flow Management (Not Just Profit)

What can go wrong?
You can be profitable on paper but still run out of cash, and that can kill your business faster than anything else. Many focus on sales but ignore actual cash movement.

What to do:
Track your cash inflow and outflow daily or weekly. Understand your working capital. Don’t blow money on things that look good but add little value.

3. Economics

What can go wrong?
Ignoring the bigger economic (macro & micro) picture can leave you exposed to risks or make you miss out on growth opportunities.

What to do:
Watch trends, economic shifts, and changes in customer behavior. A simple market scan can keep you ahead of the curve.

4. Support Roles (Software and Tools)

What can go wrong?
Overlooking basic tools like email clients, word processors, or accounting software drains your time and productivity.

What to do:
Invest wisely. Go free or manual where you can early on, but don’t ignore the tools that keep your operations running efficiently.

5. Ignoring Compliance, Taxes, and Permits

What can go wrong?
The taxman or regulators will come. Late fees, fines, interest, or even shutdowns can wreck your progress.

What to do:
Register your business, file your taxes, get insurance, and stay compliant from day one. It saves a lot of future headaches.

6. No Strategy for Scaling or Exit

What can go wrong?
Without a growth or exit strategy, you might get stuck in survival mode, hustling daily but never truly building.

What to do:
Look beyond today’s sales. Plan 1–3 years ahead. What does growth look like? What people, systems, or capital will you need to get there?

These are the things that often fly under the radar but can come back to bite you if ignored. As your business grows, remember, it's not just about the product or the customer. These behind the scenes pieces matter just as much.

Handle them early, and you’ll build a business that lasts.

[Kunmi @Kunmilade]

@supersanusi True that