You're a Man. Act broke. Delete food delivery apps. Drive a modest car. Live in a cheap apartment. Keep a simple wardrobe. Ignore anybody’s judgment. Stack up cash. Invest. Set yourself up for life.
Limit your exposure to the people who seem to just tolerate you
No matter how much you like them,
like yourself more
If you persist, it'll program you into believing that is what you deserve
Ask God to restore your appetite for life. Your ideas. Your energy. Your curiosity. Your confidence. Your hope for the future. Sometimes you don't need a completely new life. You need to reconnect with the parts of yourself you stopped nurturing.
“Me and Davido would sit and have a finance meeting every week because I think it is important for him to know how his money is being spent. I will now say ‘David please, no more cars.’”
— Davido’s sister, Sharon Ademefun.
Life is teaching me the law of detachment. enjoy people, moments and blessings while they’re yours but don’t lose yourself trying to make anything stay forever.
I hope you never overlook the sacrifices people make for you. Nothing in this world comes truly free; everything you receive has cost someone something—whether their time, effort, or a piece of their heart. The least you can do is show gratitude.