One of the best signs of your growth is seeing yourself no longer worried, bothered, or hurt by the things that once used to drain you. You’re getting better and it feels so good.
it’s the people who need to preach it and receive acknowledgment on being “spiritually woke” who are the least spiritually woke and exactly like this !
@Kvcid One of my exes was like this. So “spiritually awake” and always preaching positivity but was so mentally draining, toxic, and controlling, it really is ass backwards isn’t it?
Not sure who needs to hear this, but you can’t keep blaming someone for being who they’ve always been and doing all the things that you’ve let slide multiple times. It doesn’t make their actions ok, but at some point it’s also on you for giving them endless chances.
Stop chasing stimulation. It’s okay to be bored, to be silent, or be alone. Sometimes we need to detox from sensory overload and re-center our spirits and path; that involves turning down the volume on the outside world, so that you can hear what's going on in the inside.
Y’all need to learn what “sensory overload” is! Stop assuming people have attitude or are mad just because they need time alone. Not everyone can constantly be social all day, everyday. Some of us need a few hours alone, without being talked to, touched or bothered, and THATS OK.