ACCORDING TO PSYCHOLOGY, people with avoidant attachment will finally meet someone who treats them well, makes them feel safe, and actually wants consistency... then suddenly start focusing on "flaws," pull away emotionally, and convince themselves the relationship doesn't feel right because deep down intimacy feels more threatening than loneliness
Breakups in your 30s hit differently. It's not the same as heartbreak at 21. At 21, you cry, vent to friends, go out, distract yourself, and somehow you heal. Back then, life felt long, full of possibilities, what ifs, and( second chances). But in your late 20s or as you approach your 30s, it feels different. You are not only losing a person. You are losing plans, routines, and the version of yourself that was building a future with them.
KOBE BRYANT’S 10 RULES:
Get better every single day
Prove them wrong
Work on your weaknesses
Execute what you practiced
Learn from greatness
Learn from both wins and losses
Practice mindfulness
Be ambitious
Believe in your team/yourself
Learn storytelling
IF YOU'RE OVER 35
1) Have zero savings.
2) You don't own a house.
3) Your body is out of shape.
4) You have no assets.
5) You're heavily in debt.
6) Your skills are the same as they were 10 years ago.
7) You have no clear purpose or long-term goals.
8) You're still making excuses.
YOU DESERVE IT!
This is the life you built with your choices.
At 35, no one is coming to save you.
Own it. Or change it.
RIP John West — he passed away recently from natural causes.
John West was an autistic adult who had been abused and neglected by a previous caretaker. Des (@/waxesbydes_) found him in poor conditions, became his legal guardian, and took him in. Under her care, his health and life improved significantly. He gained independence, worked, attended college, and enjoyed family time with Des and her daughter Eliana. He had autism plus other serious underlying health issues.
I honestly miss gatekeeping a little.
XXX used to feel more like an actual industry with its own culture, boundaries, and professionalism.
Now the lines between influencers, streamers, creators, and performers are so blurred that the entire social dynamic around the industry has changed.
BEFORE YOU DIE AS A MAN, DO THIS:
- See your 6-pack once.
- Deadlift 2x your bodyweight.
- Do 10 pull-ups straight.
- Travel solo.
- Quit something that's killing you. Job. Habit. Relationship.
- Build something of your own. Business. Project.
Doesn't matter. Just yours.
- Be the fittest in your group at 40.
- Wake up at 45 with no medications.
- Look in the mirror feeling proud and inspired.
KofiMania is definitely Kofi Kingston's best #WWE moment, but his funniest has to be when he and the rest of New Day entered a "time machine" on Raw and ended up in 2009.
Kofi: "Leave me here! 2009 was my best year!" 💀
10 years ago this month.
They don’t make vulnerability sound like this anymore.
“Knock You Down” was 3 perspectives on love crashing at once…
Keri Hilson (pain), Kanye West (ego), Ne-Yo (honesty).
Who carried the song?