@DeliaCore I have explicitly seen at least one person state that they will call him "she/her" specifically because they knew definitively that he was a repressed trans woman regardless of what he says.
@DeliaCore I don't believe he has explicitly asked not to be called she/her, but he has repeatedly stated that he identifies as a cis guy. It just feels weirdly malicious towards someone who's an ally to try and force a gender on him that he has said he is not.
@nisha_nox It does. I'm a little confused by the point of the Aemilia stuff besides the "unpaid commission" part then, since the rest just seems like the results of the unrequited romantic relationship stuff, which only could have been an issue if she hadn't respected said boundaries.