Lately, I've been including this in my prayer: "If I'm not meant to have it, Lord, please remove the desire from my heart to want it, and help me find peace in its absence."
Ngl, I’m not sneaky link material
I respect people who can do casual and keep it moving, but me? I know myself. Once I like you, I don’t do just vibes again. I get attached, I pay attention, I start reading meaning into everything.
Before I know it, I’m caring more than I planned, overthinking small things, and pretending I’m unbothered when I’m actually not.
So it’s just better I don’t even start that kind of arrangement.