“Don’t make an OF, men won’t respect you.”
Not sure if you’ve noticed this but men do not respect women either way.
You can be a “good girl” all your life and still never get approval, respect, or kindness from men.
@_papicole Most girls do it Cause they want money, not because they like the bdsm- kind of lifestyle. And guys dont want the actual bdsm girls Cause they find basic chick more atractive 🤷🏻♀️
I genuinely don’t understand this idea that a Domme caring about her sub somehow makes her “less dominant.”
These are HUMAN relationships.
You can have boundaries. You can have rules. You can be strict, demanding, intimidating, soft, nurturing, or somewhere in between, and still genuinely give a damn about the person on the other side of the dynamic.
If your sub is going through something serious, checking on them doesn’t suddenly revoke your Domme card.
Being cruel 24/7 is not a prerequisite for dominance.
Different dynamics work for different people. Some Dommes are incredibly soft with their subs. Others are much harsher. Some switch between both depending on the situation.
There isn’t one personality template every dominant woman has to follow.
Stop policing women because their version of dominance doesn’t look exactly like yours. 👑