I think love is communication. Not because you never disagree, but because you care enough to talk about what isn't working instead letting resentment quietly grow. I think love is being able to say, "This hurt me," and feeling safe enough to say it.
Idk my hot take is that if you’re quick to be petty or do things to someone out of spite, you just don’t genuinely like that person 💀 nastiness shouldn’t come so easily to you like that