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@HLTVpriv That’s what good friends are for, gotta have them check you if you think you’re being unfair on yourself or too lenient with yourself. Good pals will go “mate ur fuckin asking a bit much there” or “how are you letting them treat you like that”
@HLTVpriv Yeah ! And when you get to that point and you’re like damn yes, then healthy thing to do is to have a convo and communicate with the person and say Oi one of my needs that isn’t being met rn its that you don’t play DBD, and they go “okay, I play this atm so can u stream dbd 2 me”
@HLTVpriv And then expressing why that makes you unhappy and what the individual can do to make you more happy, which btw they should be very willing and wanting to do anyway, because compromises are good QoL updates for relationships, buff happiness n nerf sad innit (2/2)
@HLTVpriv And furthermore! Compromise is the most unselfish way to make an effort for Both dudes happiness, you’re not asking someone to 180 change all their personality around n become someone they’re not, it’s about figuring out what they do that makes you unhappy (1/2)
@HLTVpriv Plus I think some criteria, a select few, are way more important than others, people that tick the most important boxes do exist for sure, the rest is just up to willingness to keep on growing and improvement to become better partner and better person
@HLTVpriv Yeah, there’ll be someone who will tick 90% of the boxes, the rest is down to compromise and putting in the work. Plus boxes aren’t always ticked automatically, but it’s bout finding someone who is willing to put that effort in to tick that box as best they can, if ygm