#joongdok au where yjh becomes kdj’s sugar daddy, fully prepared to take care of all of dokja’s needs for the rest of their lives and make it so kdj doesn’t even need to lift a finger, just to get a text from him saying he’ll come over “when he finishes work” +
The body is always asking one question. Am I safe enough to build or do I need to survive? When the answer is survival, your best traits go offline. Patience shrinks. Vision shrinks. Discipline shrinks. This is why peace is not the opposite of ambition. Peace is the condition that lets ambition mature.
gemini new moon lesson: if there's one universal rule in this life is that better days are always coming, especially if you're struggling a lot right now (don't give up)
Unpopular opinion:
I rarely meet men in real life who are as remarkable as the ones written in movies, but I constantly meet women who are far more impressive than the women movies give us.
여자들이 돈이 필요하면 몸을 팔 거라고 주장하는 건 사실 그냥 매춘하는 남자들의 소원임 한국도 항상 나라가 힘들어지면 커뮤니티의 남자들이 매춘하는 사람 많아지니 공급이 늘어 성매매에 드는 금액이 줄 지 않을까 기대하면서 많은 여자가 성매매하기를 바라는 글을 씁니다 음습한 희망사항이예요 현실은 여성들이 힘든 상황이 되면 투잡 쓰리잡을 뛰면서 버팁니다 수요는 많지만 공급은 항상 부족해요 괜히 납치 감금 성매매가 지금도 있는 게 아니예요 여자들은 스스로를 지키려고 애써요 남자들은 부정하고 싶겠지만 그게 사실이예요 여자들은 매춘 같은 거 하고 싶지 않아한다고
even if you don’t travel this year, you must teach yourself a second or third language.
if you already know 3 languages you’re ahead of the game and should be making strong relationships with other people who speak that tongue
Even STRONG GIRLS need someone to take care of them sometimes...😭💖
And the way he held her in his arms... awwww 🥹🫶
For once, he was actually acting like a NORMAL BOYFRIEND😭
Una volta la nonna mi aveva dato consiglio:
Nei periodi difficili, vai avanti a piccoli passi. Fai ciò che devi fare, ma poco alla volta. Non pensare al futuro, nemmeno a quello che potrebbe accadere domani. Lava i piatti. Togli la polvere. Scrivi una lettera. Fai una minestra.
Vedi?
Stai andando avanti passo dopo passo. Fai un passo e fermati. Riposati. Fatti i complimenti. Fai un altro passo. Poi un altro.
Non te ne accorgerai, ma i tuoi passi diventeranno sempre più grandi.
E verrà il tempo in cui potrai pensare al futuro senza piangere.
Elena Mikhalkova, La stanza delle chiavi antiche
the venus-jupiter conjunction in cancer at 25° (exact on june, 9th) a very auspicious and lucky time period in many ways so at least try to make a list of wishes or some abundance ritual even if you didn't plan something big in advance.
june, 8th and 10th might be better for rituals btw as the moon is better placed on these days.
There is a version of burnout people rarely talk about.
No, not collapse.
Not tears. Not quitting. Not obvious exhaustion.
... Just a gradual loss of sharpness.
You still show up. Still work.
Still handle things.
But something important is missing.
Your mind does not bite the way it used to.
Decisions feel duller.
Thinking feels heavier.
Creativity takes longer.
Even simple execution feels slightly less clean.
And I know many of you reading this feel it..
This is why waiting for “burnout symptoms” is dangerous.
By the time the dramatic signs appear, the decline usually started long before.
The first signal is often cognitive blunting.
A subtle reduction in mental edge.
.. And because it is subtle, ambitious people normalize it.
You adapt downward.
Lower expectations.
Use more caffeine.
Accept lower-quality thinking as normal.
That is how execution reliability erodes in intelligent people.
You accommodate to a weaker baseline.
How long do you think you can function while already below your true capacity?