@sethlfowler Absolutely. Growth is a normal and necessary part of life. The problem is when love is based on potential rather than reality. Appreciate who they are now, and celebrate who they become.
Stop Pretending, Start Being.
One of the biggest mistakes women make before marriage is performing instead of showing up authentically.
When you pretend to be who you are not, you do not just deceive him, you rob yourself of being truly chosen.
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SHE IS TELLING YOU EVERYTHING. YOU ARE JUST NOT PAYING ATTENTION.
She said everything was fine.
But her eyes were empty. She sighed once — softly — and moved on.
And you missed it.
Every married man needs to read this.
She mentioned she was stressed. Something she wanted but kept putting off.
Many hear it and move on. A husband who truly listens remembers and acts, without being reminded.
That’s when she knows she’s not just loved; she’s understood.
And that changes everything.
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THE MAN vs. HIS GIFT.
Ladies, let me say this clearly:
The man on the pulpit and the man at home are NOT the same person.
Stop falling in love with a man's gift, fall in love with the man.
A pastor's wife once showed up at church with her luggage and said:
"I want to marry the man preaching — the one at home is someone else."
Funny? Yes, but also a WARNING every woman needs to hear before she says "I do."
@sethlfowler Very true.
The version of you that gets chosen is often the version you'll be expected to sustain. It's far better to be accepted for who you are than admired for who you're pretending to be.
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You can pretend your way to the altar, you cannot pretend your way through a marriage.
Your true character will always surface.
The wise thing to do is lead with it from the very beginning and trust that the right person will value exactly who you are.
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LONG ≠ WELL.
There's a difference between knowing someone LONG enough and knowing someone WELL enough.
You can spend 3 hours talking about football and still be marrying a total stranger.
Slow down, sis.
Nobody negotiates well under pressure.
When you're desperate to get married, you make desperate decisions.
You stop thinking clearly. You start settling.
Patience is not weakness, It's wisdom.
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SHE IS TELLING YOU EVERYTHING. YOU ARE JUST NOT PAYING ATTENTION.
She said everything was fine but her eyes were empty. She sighed once - softly - and moved on and you missed it.
Every married man needs to read this.
She mentioned she was stressed. Something she wanted but kept putting off. You nodded, you forgot.
But the husband who was truly listening. He acts on it - days, weeks later - without being asked.
That’s when she realizes she isn’t loved.
She is known & that’s changes it.