Sometimes you gotta remind people... I was already chosen before you arrived. Already blessed. Already building. You was an addition to the frequency, not the source of it.
I took myself out the mix for a reason. I needed time to get my life together, keep certain things private, and accept some situations for what they are instead of trying to force different outcomes. The more I pulled back, the clearer everything became. These days I’m staying in my lane, focusing on myself, and putting my energy into the life I’m trying to build. Sometimes stepping away is exactly what you need to move forward.
God please don't send me another man who doesn't know how to communicate, take accountability, or emotionally show up. I don't want a man who's still battling himself, avoiding healing, depressed, or emotionally unavailable and refusing help. I don't want a man who can't stand firm, speak for himself, or take control of his own life. I don't want a man who belongs to someone else, is still tied to past situations, or lacks compassion, empathy, patience, and romance.
I do better alone. Wrong people slow me down, mess with my money and my energy. By myself I’m locked in and everything flows. Soon as somebody get involved, shit fall apart. Not this year. 🚫