Proud of you for working your way up.
it's not an easy path, but you help yourself improve everyday- emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally. More than anything, I'm proud of you for doing it not for anyone else, but for yourself.
I don't know who needs to hear this but normalize moving on silently when someone doesn't want you. You don't need to send them long messages and beg them to see your worth. Let them lose you and find out once you're gone what they lost.
Adulting advice??? Always make time for travel, even if itโs not an expensive trip. Take time to unwind and breathe. Itโs crucial for your mental health. Visit the beach and donโt feel guilty about spending your hard-earned money. You deserve to enjoy life.
As you grow older, you start to crave more peace of mind noh? You start to appreciate silence. If things weren't meant to be, you wouldn't push yourself anymore, you're done begging people to stay in your life, and you're done torturing yourself with the things you don't deserve.
This is a sign to leave our super-understanding era because sometimes people just take advantage of the kindness that we are giving. I'm so done with being okay with what they are doing and feeling sorry for myself afterward.
Adulting advice? Use your long weekend to go out and treat yourself. Learn how to make yourself enough for you without needing someone by your side. Make yourself your one & only partner that no matter what will always be there for you. Live your life and take a lot of pictures.
At this stage??? you really reach a point where all you seek is peace of mind noh? After everything, trauma, the heartbreaks, and the people who took you for granted. But look at you now? youโve built your own walls. Youโre no longer who you used to be. And thatโs true strength.