Tbh gue gasuka sama statment toxic positivity macam "gapapa miskin yang penting bahagia." Like, big no. Gaada yang bahagia dalam KEMISKINAN, hidup miskin itu tidak LAYAK, banyak cita-cita yang mati karena jadi MISKIN. Gaya hidup sederhana beda sama nasib hidup jadi orang miskin.
Your relationship with yourself cannot be built entirely around improvement. At some point, you have to become someone you are allowed to enjoy being. You get to be proud of who you are. Present tense.
dating to marry will make you realize that the "plenty of fish in the sea" narrative is false. alot of people are really not worth that level of intimacy
one thing i learned from being sad is you just have to feel it and once you’re done, you just need to go out of the room because life is so much bigger than the room you’ve been living in. trust me, it works.